The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with Nature. ~ Joseph Campbell
It is possible. I did it and
I'll teach you how.
The first and most important step is learning to RE-TREE-T© and set self-protective energetic boundaries so that you are able to CARE MORE and CARRY LESS.
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There is a fine line between caring for others vs carrying
their pain and problems
You and I know this well. We've struggled with drawing
and holding this line our entire lives.
Because of our big ♥️'s, we excel in caretaking, healing, and transformational roles BUT we over-give, over-extend, and over-invest. We assume too much responsibility for other people's problems and take (carry) them home.
THIS LEAVES NO TIME OR ENERGY FOR OUR NEEDS
OR WORSE OF ALL, OUR BIGGEST SOUL VISIONS & MISSIONS!
Many of the unfulfilled professional empaths I work with have trouble:
- saying NO to awful and demanding supervisors, co-workers, work loads, or jobs
- letting down, disappointing, or not being there for clients who need us . . . 24/7
- challenging the insensitive and hurtful things random strangers or loved ones say
- declining unhelpful or judgmental feedback from friends, family, or "experts"
- confronting others about their slack at home or work (instead of picking it up)
- feeling guilty and selfish for "dropping" others to "indulge" in what energizes us
Energetic boundaries are the
Mother of all boundaries. They
tell us why all others are off.
For example, if you're a people pleaser, you're probably worried about hurting or triggering others ESPECIALLY when these people may actually be the ones mistreating or taking advantage of you! You may be carrying THEIR pain in YOUR body because you're intuitive or psychic and have no clue how to organize, let alone contain, energy.
Even if your ego-mind and loved ones say protective things that make sense, you don't trust your feelings to help you set limits because they're intense, and scramble everything up in your head, heart, and body when triggered. You try to talk yourself out of your feelings and beat yourself up when you can't (which only makes matters worse!).
THERE IS A BETTER WAY, AND IT HAS IMPROVED EVERY ASPECT OF MY LIFE. I now re-guard my emotional sensitivity as my greatest gift and most reliable inner compass, and I can't wait to tell you how I did it.
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I cried at the drop of a hat because I carried a lot. Spent hours fretting about a harsh reprimand or mean look or tone. Preferred to be alone and play in the magical Amazon rainforest that covers 95% of my native Suriname, imagining that I was Mowgli.
After a military coup uprooted my family, we moved to the concrete jungles of Miami. I coped with the loss of my safe sanctuary and my lifeline to my true self during the awkward middle school years by becoming selectively mute, pretending not to speak English. I didn't know how else to hide.
Decades later, my search for healing was sped up by a PhD in clinical psych and shamanic, energy medicine, and Depth Hypnosis training, but I continued to struggle with public speaking terror.
I was most comfortable behind the scenes. Not heard, not seen,
happy as a clam in my small holistic practice . . . playing small & hiding
UNTIL MY BIG SOUL MISSION NO LONGER LET ME GET AWAY WITH IT.
I shared my awakening story in a memoir in 2017, and since then have talked to audiences, big and small, online and in person, on podcasts and radio shows, at conferences, retreats, and book stores.
I've offered my tools to hundreds of professional empaths, sensitive experts, online soulpreneurs, transformation agents, thought leaders, psychotherapists, and academics in mental health and holistic healing circles. Being able to teach my best energy healing courses online, such as HEAL LOVE LEAD with SOUL AUTHORITY™, was super exciting: it meant that I could help other unfulfilled empaths and experts embody their soul authority and natural genius, and share their important gifts with the world!
What my students say:
"This is a totally unique set of practices, yet also universal. I really love the framework that Loraine has created. I’ve never seen anyone teach it in this way, but it’s drawing on things anyone can tap into: nature, the elements, trees, animals. And each person brings their own understanding and wisdom to the practice, which is all celebrated and incorporated. In fact, each student is their own foundation for the practice, so it’s a very creative process that comes from within, though guided by Loraine!"
"Most valuable was learning to ground my energy and emotions in a way that organizes them, as well as being able to disperse whatever is not mine. It doesn't always have to be a fight or struggle."
"I have never felt as settled or at peace as I have since I have experienced this course.”
My FREE COURSE is for you if:
- You want to feel worthy, know that you're good enough, and stop the painful self-sabotage
- You want to restore trust in your intuition, emotions, and inner sense of divine alignment
- You want to get clear on who or what to keep in and who or what to keep out of your life–without added outside pressure!
- You want to learn about and fully grasp the difference between being co-dependent vs interdependent
- You want to reserve your precious energy and natural genius (your sensitivity!) for people and projects related to your soul purpose
It took daily practice to trust myself again.
starting with the most basic, low-stakes YES-NO decisions
that you alone can make.
Like asking yourself: Is this course the next step for me?
(Take a deep breath, drop into your core, and feel the energy moving through your body and guiding you to the answer).
If your answer is YES, welcome! I'm so honored to empower and guide you along this beautiful journey of caring and meaning-making!
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A free course for unfulfilled and underrepresented professional empaths and sensitive experts in mental health, coaching, the arts, thought and transformational leadership, meditation practices, and social and Earth justice activism
Become the SOUL AUTHORITY™ of your life and professional field. BONUS - how to do a shamanic journey guidance and a cutting cords meditation.
"Loraine is very thorough and you can really tell from how detailed and organized the curriculum is that she takes great pride in her work and greatly cares about helping the women she works with. She is very dedicated to her path of helping others."
- online course student
"The way that Loraine guides us makes you feel that you can really trust her, not only because of her intelligence and wisdom, but because she really cares, and she is very honest about her own journey, that she is also flawed and struggles with similar issues still, and that she is just another human on this journey. She is relatable, very compassionate, and patient. She is a true gifted healer."
- in-person and online course student
